What a cute couple.
I’m writing my baseball romance right now and it’s gong pretty well.
The sparks are already flying between my characters at first sight.
What a cute couple.
I’m writing my baseball romance right now and it’s gong pretty well.
The sparks are already flying between my characters at first sight.
I’ve wanted to do another article about diversity in fiction for a while now. My first was about interracial romances and why I love writing them. With so much chatter going about the need for diversity in books, I had to speak on it again.
First let’s start off with a question for authors. Since I’m an author too, I figured I’d begin here. You’re an author and you have an idea for a story which features a character of a race other than your own. Say it’s a black male and you as a white female or male aren’t sure what to write. Do you scrap this idea, even though it could be one of your best books or do you try doing it yourself and using what you’ve seen on TV as your guide? I’ve talked with authors before who’ve said they’d rather not do the “black” character for fear of getting it wrong, but unless you’re doing a historical, say something in the days of slavery or in 1920’s Harlem New York, what could you possibly get wrong?
I say this because I’m a black female who may not fit the mold of the so called black stereotype. One example, I like rock music and not rap. I don’t talk slang like many may perceive a black person to do. Yet, I’ve seen books with black characters who fit that description. In many publications, even those written by black authors, black characters are painted a certain way. The way they talk, dress, the neighborhood they’re from. Is it wrong? Not necessarily, but does it hold true for every black male or female? No. What I’m getting at is, when you’re an author you don’t have to draw from those stereotypes unless it fits into the plot. If your story is centered around black males who talk slang and dress a certain way fine. The problem comes in when every book paints black characters that way.
What about you as the reader? If the cover features characters that aren’t like you, are you more apt to shy away from it or does it even matter? I’ve heard rumblings about covers with black characters not selling well. Even worse, publishers haven’t put people of color on the front at all because they fear it won’t be marketable. Why is this? Do we live in a world that is fully white? No, so why should this even be an issue? The book should be judged on its plot and subject matter. If that’s interesting to you then you shouldn’t be deterred to read it because of the characters on the front.
I’m an author and reader who loves reading and writing books about diversity. Some people might take issue with certain books because of the race of characters. That’s not me. If the storyline is interesting I’ll read it whether it be two of the same race or multicultural. We live in a very diverse world so why wouldn’t we want more books that reflect today’s society?
In my opinion, authors should be the leaders in showing what’s outside the box. We should be writing characters whether they’re of different race, sexual orientation, religion, and or gender. Fiction is supposed to be about freedom to express yourself and it shouldn’t be held back because of what people think or say. People in general just want well written books with fleshed out characters not the colors of their skin or what religions they are.
We need more diversity in fiction for so many reasons. Why stifle creativity because of our various differences? I’m sure you’re saying it’s easier said than done but if we all do what we can to embrace diversity around us someone else might just learn from it and pass it on.
Is this thing on?
As I said in my last post, it’s been almost 3 years since I posted on the Veronica site. No fault of this muse. Grrrrl, I told her … *laughs* Anyway, yes, it’s been a while and in that timeframe what have we seen?
The list goes on and on. And yet, men are STILL walking around with their pants hanging off their asses. TELL ME WHY THIS IS STILL A THING!
Yes, there has been a lot of changes. I believe the biggest thing has to be the awareness or the “woke” thing. I myself have gone through a sort of metamorphosis because things still aren’t equal or fair in the world and it’s got to change.
Like now would be excellent.
The new political climate is scary at best. When my rights as a woman are being decided by a bunch of stinky old white men, there is a problem. Not only that, the government is putting their noses where they don’t belong. They claim to be Christian, but they aren’t. You can’t use religion for your backwards ideals. It doesn’t work that way.
And then, there’s those roaches. Thank you social media for bringing these clowns out the woodwork. You might blame it on #45. Yep, I’m not going to say his name. However, it isn’t all his fault. Suddenly, people who have distinct problems with people of color are making their hatred known. White nationalist is the nice way of saying I hate everyone who isn’t white.
Yes. White supremacists. Freaking bastards.
And though I side with Black Lives Matter on some things, I don’t agree with stopping traffic on highways, not letting emergency vehicles through while they march. Nor should they be excluding people of other races who want to be allies. We need to work together. Yes, we want to tell people that we DO matter, but why will we stoop as low as the white nationalists and exclude people?
As I said on an Instagram post, you can’t demand acceptance if you yourself don’t accept others. This goes for everybody. It doesn’t mean you want equality for only blacks, whites, GLBTQ, Hispanics and not for Muslims. This isn’t selective equality. That’s what the government is doing. Those fools are picking and choosing who they want to receive benefits. More like screw the people, let’s just protect ourselves.
Only 2 years plus and so much has changed. It’s been a roller coaster and I wish to get off this hell ride and go back to sanity. The only way we can change it is by supporting equal rights organizations, marching, getting involved. Call and email your representatives, and of course when midterms come up, get out and vote these critters out of their comfy seats. We need more people in office who believe in equality for all.
Greetings readers. I truly CANNOT believe it’s been like 3 years since I posted, but okay fine. It is what it is. Shar has been busy putting out books left and right so there is one excuse. Hard to be the forth muse, right? And actually, there are 3 new ones, but that’s none of this muses business.
Anyway, I am FINALLY ready to write. It’s been forever I know, but Shar is committed to writing with me come this May. I’m totally excited to get out there and write some new swirly books for you to consume.
Believe you me, I’ve got a ton of ideas. *smiles* And thankfully, Shar is ready to tap into that side if her muse. The swirl is ever rampant, and IR is on the come up in publishing so this seems to be the perfect time. I’m going to start small. We’re going to do a few shorts and then move on to novels. Again, I am sharing Shar’s brain with like 9 other muses, 4 of which she’s not revealing, so it may take a little while. It just depends who gets more headspace, right? I’m sure fighting with BL and Michael will be fun too.
In the meantime, if you’re still tuned in to me, what fabulous IR books, MF or GLBTQ have you read? Please share in the comments! Be nice!
Shar released a few as she always does, and here’s my chance to let you know about them.
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BLMorticia’s Under the Gun Series There are two books, with the last one on it’s way by July/August!
Blurb for Book 1 Pre DADT Repeal…
Jaded by his lover leaving him for a woman, Camdyn Hardy is looking for love and partnership. When he goes to the local shooting range, he only wants to let off a little steam, but meeting Malik Day, a discharged army serviceman is a welcome surprise.
Malik’s issues go farther than just a lack of love. Discharged for defending a fellow gay soldier got him kicked out of the Army and back at home with his bible thumping parents. When Malik meets Camdyn, the sparks are there, but both of them are too afraid to make their desires known to each other.
After several conversations and dates, Camdyn and Malik are hot for one another and ready to take the next step. When they do, they discover they have a lot more in common than just a need for a committed relationship.
Blurb: Zane Ashford’s stint in the NYPD comes to an abrupt halt when he is injured in the line of duty. After waking up partially blind in one eye, all he wants to do is crawl into a hole, but his friends and family won’t leave him alone. Reluctantly, he lets his best friend talk him into time away on a ranch in Montana. But the moment he gets there and meets Cyrus Abrams, Zane begins to contemplate murder.
Cyrus Abrams is vulgar, ornery, stuck in his ways, and not about to change for anyone, no matter how good Zane Ashford looks in those jeans. The more they lock horns, the more Cyrus begins to see Zane in a whole new light. But Cyrus has a past, one that left him in big trouble and more broken than he cares to admit—a past no one told Zane about. Cyrus fears that when Zane finds out, everything will come to a screeching halt.
Blurb: If you want somethin’ real bad, you gotta work harder than everyone else.
My grandma was right about that. I did want to be the best damn guitarist. Not the best female guitarist or the best black female guitarist. The best fucking guitarist on the planet. Although Sarge and Diabolical Plan had given me the initial opportunity to show off my chops, I couldn’t be what I wanted to be with my ex-boyfriend steering the ship. I had to be the captain of my destiny. I had to be the one taking the lead.
Five months into it and I’m still pinching myself over this. Me, the little black goth girl from Milwaukee, along with Corey, Bryan Taylor, Nicolai Zander and the new guy on bass named Chad Stephenson.
Have I mentioned that Chad is hot as hell?
More about that later.
This is a spinoff of The Wretched Tales with new guitarist Hirah Blaze. She’s kicking ass and taking names, looking to become the metal world’s newest guitar goddess, but will she get sidetracked by The Wretched’s gorgeous new bass player?
Blurb: Promises are meant to be broken sometimes. Can Kimball complete the mission and keep his feelings for fellow agent Darien in check in the process?
Darien Mosely, aka BA Pointe, is a former NYPD officer with a chip on his shoulder. He came to PROTEKT in search of a new identity and career after being accused of killing a man in cold blood. Darien’s keen perception is what has made him an asset, but his cockiness has often landed him in hot water.
Kimball Emerson, aka Justice Masters, is an important figure in PROTEKT. Being a former army sergeant, he’s used to keeping secrets and being in danger on a regular basis. As one of the prime figures in the organization, he is counted on to be the finisher and, for the group’s latest task, he’s been called upon to find the leaders of a Russian mob. It should be easy enough with all his knowledge and special skills but not with his close friend Darien Mosely along for the ride.
Kimball made a promise to his fiancé that he’d come back in one piece and not watch his partner’s ass, but he isn’t sure he’ll be able to keep the latter. Darien and Kimball have been best friends for five years and, at a Christmas party several months ago, they shared a kiss that left an indelible mark on their relationship.
This latest mission calls for focus and calmer heads if they are to find the offenders who are bringing illegal drugs into Russia. The question is, how can they do it with mutual feelings and the threat of extreme danger looming over their heads?
Blurb: Christmas comes sooner than expected in the Big Easy.
With the serial killer on the loose, the Crescent City has become a place of nightmares. Inflicting terror on New Orleans has been his first order of business, and now, due to a recent faux pas, he’s on the run from district nineteen police.
In the midst of this is trans dancer Naomi Beneviere. Naomi is concerned about her safety after three other dancers wound up dead at the hands of the serial killer. To make matters worse, she dreams of their murders and possible details about the suspect.
Crime Scene Investigator Waylon Mooney is the top CSI on the case which has been plaguing the city. Waylon is meticulous and a hopeless romantic, but his social skills are a little off. After a series of dates with Naomi and many sleepless nights, Waylon is ready to take the next step in their relationship, but the killer on the loose may hamper their progress.
Will Waylon be able to assist in finding the killer? And will Naomi Beneviere finally have the chance at a true relationship with Waylon?
See No Evil concludes the N’awlins Exotica series. All books must be read in order.
Amazon – http://mybook.to/SeeNoEvil
Smashwords – https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/708793
Payhip – https://payhip.com/b/lJQp
“Why aren’t there any minority same race couples represented anywhere in the media?”
“Why do black men feel they must go get a white woman when they are successful?”
“…no positive examples to showcase who we really are. No examples to show other Black gays of what a secure, functional, stable, happy relationship looks like. No examples for the Black gay male youth to strive towards when it comes to what a positive gay long term relationship resembles.” From Cypher Avenue Article referenced below.
This is Veronica again with an article about mixed race couples. If you checked in on me yesterday, I posted some beautiful real life pictures of mixed race couples. Those pictures I found on Facebook on pages like Intergaycial and Black Women Love White Men Period. Those four pictures depict beautiful couples who’ve hopefully found their true love, and yet some people have a problem with it.
I’ll tell you what spurs this on. Articles like this one on Cypher Avenue website where the journalist speaks about gay black athletes and interracial relationships. See the piece here. The author of this article sites examples of athletes who were or are in interracial relationships and how there aren’t enough positive examples of black male couples.
They speak of Michael Sam, for one, who recently came out and is shown with a Caucasian male who might’ve been his boyfriend. In the article, the author says he isn’t against interracial relationships but he’d like to see more black gay couples portrayed in society.
Again, he states that he isn’t against it but would like to see…
Yes, I get that sir, but as you stated in the article, you can’t expect the media to do what you want. Television and film does what the masses want or rather what they feel is reality. A lot of minority characters on the small and big screens play up to stereotypes like the angry black man, the ditzy blond, the weak minded Asian, the overly femme gay man, etc. A lot of what these writers do is put whatever they feel is closest to reality in their shows so positive same race couples of Latino or black decent won’t happen.
And I have to ask, why is this a big deal? I mean, isn’t America, in particular turning into more of a melting pot? We have a black President for one, who is the product of an interracial marriage. Still, many in the country have an issue with him just because of that. Why must we continue to make race a bigger issue than it is? With conversations like these, we won’t move forward. We aren’t respecting people’s differences and in my mind, we’re indirectly saying we don’t want race mixing.
Why can’t we love who we want without these kinds of talks? You say your reality is being around all black people in couples. Perhaps that’s what you chose to surround yourself with but, my reality is different. Mine is to be around people who love one another regardless if they’re of mixed or same race. If you have your preference, fine but again, when will we start squashing the outcries like the ones above? Can we not just move on from the race talk entirely? In my opinion, if we keep on saying things like this, we’ll always be stuck in a rut as far as race relations. We need to learn to be more accepting towards people as well as their preferences.
If your reality is all the same race, then I believe you need to step out into the true real world and live. Love is love, regardless of color, gender, religion, or nationality. Stop hating on those who found love outside of their race and let them live their lives and you live yours for you!
Greetings readers. Wow, its been almost two weeks since I last blogged. OMG. 0.O After the last one, Shar and fam went on vacation so that meant the muses had to go too. *smiles* What an eventful vacation it was too. Still a lot of fun was had in New Orleans even though the weather sucked most of the trip. It was still a blast and real nice to get away from Chicago.
So, our last blog before Rawiya’s stop was about size. We were talking about the average length and width of a man’s penis. However, where did all these myths about size start? Why do some of us feel that the bigger is always better?
Well, let’s start with that common myth of… the bigger the shoe size, the bigger the dick. Or something like that. *chuckles* You know you believed it too. Once you were old enough to notice a boy’s pee pee, the fast girls or boys, told you to pay attention to Jimmy’s size twelves. Aw hell, if he’s got big feet, it means he’s got a lot going on in between his legs. Well ladies I hate to tell you, that’s not always true. Just because Freddy is rocking size 10 or above don’t mean his dick is big. Just look at your man’s feet and think about what he’s working with? Uh huh, is it true? Mhmm, thought so. Moving on.
Next one is the porn industry. Remember John Holmes? May he and his huge schlong rest in peace. His Wikipedia claims he measured himself at about 13 inches. Wow, 13? What could you do with 13? Anyways, this is another reason we might expect way too much of our men. It’s all John Holmes fault and others like him, tossing their girth around on screen, making their costars squeal. And when we watch we always say, wow, what I could do with that. Seriously? Could you REALLY do anything?
As I said in the last article, just pray he knows how to use his weapon if he is packing heat. Nothing worse than being with a man who doesn’t know how to use his big dick!
Lastly, what about the look of the man? Ladies and gents, we just ASSUME that a man who looks good has gotta be hung. Well, I’m sorry to say, that isn’t always the case. And um, some of those muscle bound men you like ogling, they might be lacking down there in the size department. I
dunno if you noticed how small those bikini underwears are when those men are up on stage all greased up and flexing. *cocks eyebrow* Now that’s not to say that all of them have that issue. Let me do some investigating to find out… *waves for Colin Wayne* Ahem, no seriously, all of these are myths about a man’s size but as we said in the last article, size is not always a big deal. If the man knows how to make love to you properly then that should be good enough. After all, you’re with him for his personality and intelligence, not his dick. Or are you?
Leave your thoughts if you’re brave enough!
Good morning, readers. So, today we’re dipping into that post you’ve been clamoring for. Yep, the one about size that seems to matter to women and men. How big is the male genitalia and does the size of it really make a difference when it comes to sex?
Hmm, well, speaking from experience…ahem…in my humble opinion it doesn’t. Face it guys, if you have that much girth between your legs, you need to know how to work it right? I mean, if you’re really packing the “big gun” do you know how to handle it, use it to satisfy your significant other? Although some of us ladies aren’t comfortable talking about it openly, we do think about the size of your pecker just like you do. We know you were born with that size and there are enhancements too but hey in my eyes bigger doesn’t always mean better.
Studies from Medical News show the averages as 8.8 centimeters (3.5 inches) for the flaccid length and 12.9 centimeters (5.1 inches) at the erect length. View the whole article here. The article also states that in a poll of women taken by a British journal, 85% were satisfied with the size of their partner’s genitalia. More were concerned about the width, meaning the thicker the better. That’s my thought too. After all, when there’s more flesh, it feels better to us right? If it’s too skinny, it might feel like you’re being penetrated by a pencil. Hmm, who wants that? Not me. *laughs* And men? Seems like you agonize a little too much about your willy, right? If you feel it’s too small, learn how to please your woman in other ways but chances are, she’ll be perfectly fine with the size of your pecker especially if you make her scream and forget her name.*grins* It might look great bulging out of a pair of jeans and hell even better for a close-up in the hot porn movie but the proof is in the pudding. Do you know how to use that thing?
What is your opinion, ladies and gents. Are you obsessed with the size? Let me know your thoughts
I’ll leave you for now and when I come back, I’ll delve more into that misconception!